Teenagers' Addiction to Social Media is Society and Parents' Fault

#Childhood

Tue, Dec 31st, 2013 11:00 by capnasty NEWS

Wired's Clive Thompson looks at a scathing report by Microsoft researcher Danah Boyd that argues on how kids inability to socialize is both the fault of society and parents. According to Boyd, “teenagers would love to socialize face-to-face with their friends. But adult society won’t let them. ‘Teens aren’t addicted to social media. They’re addicted to each other,’ Boyd says. ‘They’re not allowed to hang out the way you and I did, so they’ve moved it online.’”

It’s true. As a teenager in the early ’80s I could roam pretty widely with my friends, as long as we were back by dark. But over the next three decades, the media began delivering a metronomic diet of horrifying but rare child-abduction stories, and parents shortened the leash on their kids. Politicians warned of incipient waves of youth wilding and superpredators (neither of which emerged). Municipalities crafted anti-loitering laws and curfews to keep young people from congregating alone. New neighborhoods had fewer public spaces. Crime rates plummeted, but moral panic soared. Meanwhile, increased competition to get into college meant well-off parents began heavily scheduling their kids’ after-school lives.

The result, Boyd discovered, is that today’s teens have neither the time nor the freedom to hang out. So their avid migration to social media is a rational response to a crazy situation. They’d rather socialize F2F, so long as it’s unstructured and away from grown-ups. “I don’t care where,” one told Boyd wistfully, “just not home.”

Forget the empathy problem—these kids crave seeing friends in person.

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